Tuesday, February 28, 2006;00:35
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++ ^Tiring Days^ ++
^My mum^
Taken on Sunday- the day before her operation- we went to eat 'good' food^
Whole family haven't had enuff sleep these few days..
Dad has stopped working since last week and is now a full-time maria of the family but kaoz lousy and irresponsible one haha...
Mum had her operation yesterday.. glad everything seemed to be going well for her.
Sis & I took half day off from work to stay by her before her op.
We were told that the operation would take for 2 hours, in the end mum was pushed back from the op theatre after 3 hours.. made 3 of us waited impatiently in the ward.
^See how pale she was^
When mum was out from her op, she looked so pale but was conscious.
After awhile, she started to vomit... several times..really pained us seeing her this way..
She couldn't move so she gota vomit all on herself, we have to quickly clean her up..
Then when i was alone in the room with her as sis has went to get dinner, mum started to vomit again..haiz..then she told me she seemed to shiver unnaturally...teeth oso started to shiver but she dun feel cold.
I got scared and was at loss. I asked my mum "then wat i should do arh??" hahaha she told me nmind, see how later...
Mum then asked me to get another blanket from the nurse. When the nurse got back with a blanket, i asked the nurse why she is shivering when she is not cold. My mum told her the condition as well. The nurse then replied us it should be coz of the medicine, she will feel better tmr.. she has to rest.. hmmz i felt so doubtful of her answer... that i have to ask another nurse to confirm hahahah..
Heng, after awhile mum dun feel the shivering anymore..
Slowly after hours, mum felt much better.. so she decided to eat. She hasnt have meals since 9am. We were worried she might vomit again after eating... but this mum of mine hor..really li hai...can still eat so well.. finished up everything!!!
After 30mins of her makan, we wanna make sure before we leave, she dun vomit again after eating.
She din vomit anymore, we then feel more fang xing.
She still can joke and talk to us.. & refused to rest.
Seeing her condition getting better, then we felt much relieved and decided to leave for home at 11pm.Dad also left with us for home i/o staying back so that mum could rest 'quietly'.
Got home at about 12am...faster bathed and then all knocked out le..
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^The whole floor of hampers/flowers 1st thing that caught my eyes when i entered the room today^
Today, i took 2 hours time-off from work.
Was told mum couldnt get to sleep since last night. She hasnt have her sleep since then..*pengz*
Whole day today she was so busy entertaining all the colleagues, relatives and friends that came gradually to visit her since early morning till 9pm.
Well, it was kinda expected thou.
^Bubbly as ever^- cannot use her right hand but she is still using it -_-"
Mum's condition is doing well that all of us are not so gek sim le...
She can eat well and not suffering from the illness and pain.. greatly lighten our worries for her.
She is really a very strong person.. takes all these very positively...
Some of her colleagues also tot she is siao one ...
Well, mum's philosophy.. life is like dat.. u sad oso must live.. u happy oso must live..so be happy lor.. brood so much oso no use right ?
Certain things definately going to change at home..
Somehow, all these have knocked some senses to the family.
I then have learnt to be more sensible..now all i care is my mum to be as healthy as before so that she could plan her tours soon...
We used to leave all chores, all works to mum..
Everyone has been so dependent on her that now we should learn to take care of our own well-beings..
Mum needs plenty of rest and then needs very long time to build up her health so alot of things that she used to do have to distribute among the family.
Dad is also put incharge to learn and take care of mum's meals after her discharge. Haha.. edible ???
Sherr|ne 
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