Friday, April 21, 2006;00:30
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Off from work tomorrow...
Mum in her recovery week....next Tuesday she is going for her 4th treatment..
Sounded good ?? ..........
BUT........
I'm feelin utterly disappointed
After learning somethin more, i just cant help feeling more depressing..
Am i dat uninteresting and insignificant as compared to that non-living thing ??
Why the hell do i still care for so much ???
There is NEVER a moment of understanding and sensitivity...
Really angry lots lots with myself...
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Just read something interesting so decided to share it here..
Situation: 11.05pm,
guy and gal were chatting happily, when guy uncontrollably yawns
1st Scenerio======================
gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy??
guy: yeah, tired from work...
gal (sounds concern): ok, shan't disturb u, go and sleep lah
guy: ok, you have an early nite too..
guy hangs up the phone.
5 min later, phone rings awaken by the phone rings,
guy: hello?
gal: .............
guy: who's this?
gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me is it?
guy (confused): huh? what?
gal: .............
guy: why? what happened?
gal: you find me very bothersome is it?
guy: bothersome? why you said this??
gal: ..............
guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you dun say it out?
gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and went off to sleep...
guy: b...but, you are the one who ask me to go to sleep...
gal: you already said want to sleep already, what else u want me to say?
guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so... what for tell me to go sleep, and feeling unhappy in the end?
gal: since when i'm unhappy?
guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the next time, will that do?
gal: what's the point? i want you to chat with me willingly, and not because afraid that i will be unhappy...
in the end, guy spend another 25 minutes comforting gal, actual sleep time is 11.40pm, plus the earlier argument, he did not have a good sleep. what worse is the gal may argue with the same thing again the next day.
2nd Scenerio- This is considered the good example=============
gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy?
guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit, tired from work. but you have not finished talking, carry on, i will be listening.
gal (felt consoled): orh, but since you are tired, go and sleep then(still sounding out)
NEVER fall into the trap and hang up the phone
guy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more tiring. how abt i give u a call tomorrow morning. let's chat awhile more ok? (tells the reason, and offer make up measure)
gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired.
gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must do a bit more than this
guy: so what time you are going to sleep?
gal: not sure, probably a bit later.
guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health..
gal (feeling loved): ok lah...
guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are shutting also must remember to say this importantt words, else all effort wasted)
gal: i loved you too, have a good rest! (happy till can float liao)
guy: ehmm...gal hang up the phone
in the end, 11.10pm. guy sleep peacefully, and probably a morning call from gal the next day...
After reading it, what do you all reckon ??
My views :
1) FEMALE'S LOGIC CANNOT BE FIGURED OUT WITH A REASONING MIND.
2) Say a few more touching words, concerning lines, will save you more than x hr of precious time & caused unnecessary unhappiness and conflicts
3) Most imptly, what she wants is very S-I-M-P-L-E....
Sherr|ne 
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